Your craving for intimacy is your soul's yearning for deep oneness and unity with your own heart.
Perhaps this is the most precious gift of our beloveds, that they reflect to us the glimpse of our own heavenly sweetness, and we to them.
The physical acts of intimacy through lovemaking is merely a mirror of what you hold within.
Intimacy with another will always be unfulfilling or never quite as satisfying as we dreamed, where we are not in tune and meeting with our own needs by our self.
So how does one develop their greatest intimate self love affair for all eternity?
Intimacy could be considered as having four stages; intellectual, physical, emotional and experiencing.
Do you even know what makes your brain synapses light up? Did you know that your soul is the eternal student? Connect with your curiosity and delight in learning again.
Your body is made for touch, anoint it with oils and perfumes Take your body dancing, get that deep tissue massage you deserve and even rediscover self pleasure.
Speak with love to yourself, appreciate yourself and validate yourself. Lean on friends or therapists who can hold space as you clear out any emotional debris.
Bond with the universe, delight in new experiences. Take yourself on dates, discover nature, play in the unknown, travel, make art and be silly as an eternal child.
Do you see, hidden in plain sight 𝐼𝒩𝒯𝒪 𝑀𝐸 𝐼 𝒮𝐸𝐸 teases all lovers with the delightful game of coming home to the self.