This retrograde and Lionsgate season didn't leave me or my beloved untouched, and I was asked on Saturday to share my secrets of communication with my partner.
We first and foremost come together on a mutual agreement that our personal freedom to grow in any direction we choose underpins our relationship.
After 3 years together, we strive to meet our own needs individually and not dependent on the other, as whole beings before reaching out to the other person if we become aware of any gap within.
When we recognise an 'issue' with the other person, we do the work on ourselves FIRST. We have innerstandings that our partner is a reflection of our inner world and when something is shown to us that perhaps we'd rather not see, we make a personal inquiry first to address any shadow aspect.
We communicate from the place of our highest truth, even if we are aware our words may cause discomfort for the other. We do this because speaking honestly and with integrity for our own self means we are not betraying our own hearts.
Sometimes we hit what we call 'brick walls' in our relationship. We hold each other with our presence even when its tough because our innerstandings knows that once one 'brick' moves, all will tumble away leaving only a new truth for us to hear and witness the other.
It is not 100% always smooth sailing, for instance there were a few issues recently and I fell into my wounded feminine mode, walking away from him and needed my own space for a week. Neither of us are fully enlightened beings and fall into traps of our ego from time to time BUT we are able to do the internal work and come back together with our truths.
We deeply love each other and its unconditional love without expectation. We support each other to follow our hearts and our dreams. We recognise we have something incredibly special that needs nurturing and tending to.
With each passing moment we feel the magic in our veins of our love, it keeps evolving beyond our wildest imaginations. We feel incredibly blessed and show how grateful we are for the other.