Suicide is the biggest killer of men in the UK right now because our brothers are receiving the backlash of the trauma inheritance of our forefathers, it's in their psyche and some in their actions.
Right now we are in the middle of an insurgency of the feminine aspect of humankind remembering her power, her sovereignty but most of all her voice. As sisters I call out to you the remembering of our unity, as you shift out of your pain body. The feminine is not better than the masculine nor the other way, and I pray we come home to the spiritual covenant of sacred family and relating.
The masculine is not a commodity! He is not a scapegoat for your pain. Our society has been in sickness for many generations but it takes a village to nurture and water our roots and to remember our wholeness together.
I'm so grateful for my son who taught me the innocence and the beauty of the masculine. I'm so grateful to his father who taught me that the masculine truly reveres family and community. I'm so grateful to my beloved who has held space for me as I elevated myself out of the ashes.
We are all climbing out of the ashes brothers and sisters, may we all fly together
SACRED SEXUAL SOUNDS
Sisters, have you ever been told you're too noisy when you make love? Have you ever felt outraged that you've been told to 'keep it down'? Do you find it difficult to fully immerse yourself into the pleasure of lovemaking when you have to put a lid on what is the most natural form of your sexual pleasure? I have! Its like having cold water poured on your very soul
Putting worrying about family and neighbours aside, I wanted to use this space to open up a conversation about the sacred alchemical process which gets activated when a woman is fully free and accepted to allow her natural sounds to organically vocalise.
As a woman surrenders to her self during lovemaking, her natural noises actually process 'stored stuff' from out of the physical, mental, and emotional bodies. She is then in her goddess zone of actually CREATING the LOVE VIBRATION onto the planet. This is why many sisters see themselves as lovers and priestesses, because this is their sacred work (eye see you).
Her sacred sexual sounds are actually activating source codes within her beloved (usually one who aligns with the masculine vibration.) As she is penetrated open to love, the pressure points in her vagina fuse with his, and each noise will activate holy codes of heiros gamos. She must feel totally safe and trusting in her partner for this work to be achieved.
When both partners come together in sexual union, if agreed upon both can manifest using their joint intention to visualise the birth of their creation. Her noise is paramount to this process, as she goes within her temple, she retrieves manifesting codes, and as the voice of God she blesses the intention.
So how does that sound to you? Heck this is so juicy! Doesn't it make sense how women have had their voices taken away from them? Doesn't it open your eyes as to why little girls were taught to be seen and not heard?
How do you feel about being heard during lovemaking? How do you feel in the presence of sounds during your union?
The more we share our truths, the more we can celebrate in HER holiness.
The most frequent question I get asked by men on my emails is:
How can I be good enough for a woman?
Isn't it interesting that in these times of so called advanced and spiritual communities that real good men who want to connect to a partner by making love, is not enough if it isn't labelled tantric?
What I've established in the last decade alone is that women want to be 'fucked open' to God by being ravished and profoundly penetrated by a worthy man, who has done the work on himself, transmuted his traumas, is deeply sensitive, generously giving, will listen emphatically, hold space for her AND be her pillar, her rock and support system.
What exactly is this expectation? Explored deeper the underlying theme is the same, and that is that men and women still carry false 'incomplete' templates. It's really THAT simple BUT there is also a complexity and an 'a-ha' moment to be considered.
What exactly is happening in the lovers union of a spiritual partnership?
We are undoing millennia's of oppression and trauma through our deepest lovemaking but it's not just for the feminine, it's for the masculine too. Our source unified collective unconscious KNOWS our divinity and calls it out and upon our beloved.
In fact women demand their beloveds godly greatness, as usually she can see it long before he can. Only this often means he doesn't feel good enough or worthy enough for her. A part of her feels this too.
These feelings though are not necessarily our own but are to be observed as a dance with the beloved.
What can be done to remove this shaming? What can a woman do to remove this conditioning?
1. You must be your OWN primary lover. If you believe another will complete you then you will forever be searching.
2. You must do the inner work of healing the masculine energy within you. What does 'he' feel like, look like? What does his wisdom have to say which will support you?
3. Work with you perceived needs. Allow whatever shape they form to be explored, what do they have to teach you? Are they nudging you to your wholeness?
The way of woman is calling you home sister, will you answer?