𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐛𝐞𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐲 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐬𝐪𝐮𝐢𝐫𝐦
𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐨𝐝𝐢𝐞𝐝 𝐣𝐨𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐧
𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐝𝐬 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐯𝐨𝐤𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮
𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐬𝐰𝐚𝐲
𝐑𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐠𝐨𝐝𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐤𝐞𝐧
𝐒𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐢𝐭𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐨 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐝𝐞
𝐒𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐛𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐲 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐦𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐛𝐞 𝐛𝐫𝐨𝐤𝐞𝐧
𝐅𝐨𝐫 𝐬𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐬 𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐚𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐰𝐨𝐤𝐞𝐧.
𝑾𝒆 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝑮𝑼𝑺𝑯𝑰𝑵𝑮 𝒕𝒊𝒅𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝒄𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒈𝒆
In my lifetime I made an agreement to embody feminine sexual shame, my higher self so sure that I would transform and break this patterning for my ancestral line. In doing so I made a promise to show up, in the limelight and share what it means to walk the path of woman. In all her holiness, in all her beauty and in all her sovereignty.
I have been abused, I have been violated, I have been shamed. I have been a whore, a bitch and a prostitute. I have been a liar and I have been a sinner. I have created life in my womb and I have destroyed it. I have given my power away and I have had it forced from me. I have both forgotten myself and tried to take away my breath, had hands upon my mouth and neck and my voice stolen from me. I have had dark shame, sorrow and grief grow into the physical mass of my womb and heart. I have opened my legs out of both fear and disgust and had my feminine portal torn open and sewn up again.
Do you see sister? Are you resonating? The way of woman is not a path trodden lightly. We are not here to carry on with the traumas of our great grandmothers and our sisters who have been burnt at the stake. We are here to be the tide of change. We are the GUSHING tide of change!
I will SHAMELESSLY take a stand for the innocence of womankind, her sensual pleasurable feminine expression of a juicy life! I have walked my path of fire to show you there is light, there is healing and there is ecstasy.
Since 2005 I have blended my psychotherapy training with women's womb wisdom which has travelled through the hearts and consciousness of plants and mother consciousness. I make no apology for being both a psychotherapist and a Mystic. This is the path of the priestess and great goddesses, whom we all are embodied. I couldn't care less about being labelled but I do care about my sisters reclaiming their sexual innocence. 🙌🏻💓
If you feel touched by any of my posts and my words ring true for you, I have sessions both in person and online. Drop me a message if you feel the call of the shameless woman within.🙏🏻
SACRED SEXUAL SOUNDS
Sisters, have you ever been told you're too noisy when you make love? Have you ever felt outraged that you've been told to 'keep it down'? Do you find it difficult to fully immerse yourself into the pleasure of lovemaking when you have to put a lid on what is the most natural form of your sexual pleasure? I have! Its like having cold water poured on your very soul
Putting worrying about family and neighbours aside, I wanted to use this space to open up a conversation about the sacred alchemical process which gets activated when a woman is fully free and accepted to allow her natural sounds to organically vocalise.
As a woman surrenders to her self during lovemaking, her natural noises actually process 'stored stuff' from out of the physical, mental, and emotional bodies. She is then in her goddess zone of actually CREATING the LOVE VIBRATION onto the planet. This is why many sisters see themselves as lovers and priestesses, because this is their sacred work (eye see you).
Her sacred sexual sounds are actually activating source codes within her beloved (usually one who aligns with the masculine vibration.) As she is penetrated open to love, the pressure points in her vagina fuse with his, and each noise will activate holy codes of heiros gamos. She must feel totally safe and trusting in her partner for this work to be achieved.
When both partners come together in sexual union, if agreed upon both can manifest using their joint intention to visualise the birth of their creation. Her noise is paramount to this process, as she goes within her temple, she retrieves manifesting codes, and as the voice of God she blesses the intention.
So how does that sound to you? Heck this is so juicy! Doesn't it make sense how women have had their voices taken away from them? Doesn't it open your eyes as to why little girls were taught to be seen and not heard?
How do you feel about being heard during lovemaking? How do you feel in the presence of sounds during your union?
The more we share our truths, the more we can celebrate in HER holiness.
Your craving for intimacy is your soul's yearning for deep oneness and unity with your own heart.
Perhaps this is the most precious gift of our beloveds, that they reflect to us the glimpse of our own heavenly sweetness, and we to them.
The physical acts of intimacy through lovemaking is merely a mirror of what you hold within.
Intimacy with another will always be unfulfilling or never quite as satisfying as we dreamed, where we are not in tune and meeting with our own needs by our self.
So how does one develop their greatest intimate self love affair for all eternity?
Intimacy could be considered as having four stages; intellectual, physical, emotional and experiencing.
Do you even know what makes your brain synapses light up? Did you know that your soul is the eternal student? Connect with your curiosity and delight in learning again.
Your body is made for touch, anoint it with oils and perfumes Take your body dancing, get that deep tissue massage you deserve and even rediscover self pleasure.
Speak with love to yourself, appreciate yourself and validate yourself. Lean on friends or therapists who can hold space as you clear out any emotional debris.
Bond with the universe, delight in new experiences. Take yourself on dates, discover nature, play in the unknown, travel, make art and be silly as an eternal child.
Do you see, hidden in plain sight 𝐼𝒩𝒯𝒪 𝑀𝐸 𝐼 𝒮𝐸𝐸 teases all lovers with the delightful game of coming home to the self.
The most frequent question I get asked by men on my emails is:
How can I be good enough for a woman?
Isn't it interesting that in these times of so called advanced and spiritual communities that real good men who want to connect to a partner by making love, is not enough if it isn't labelled tantric?
What I've established in the last decade alone is that women want to be 'fucked open' to God by being ravished and profoundly penetrated by a worthy man, who has done the work on himself, transmuted his traumas, is deeply sensitive, generously giving, will listen emphatically, hold space for her AND be her pillar, her rock and support system.
What exactly is this expectation? Explored deeper the underlying theme is the same, and that is that men and women still carry false 'incomplete' templates. It's really THAT simple BUT there is also a complexity and an 'a-ha' moment to be considered.
What exactly is happening in the lovers union of a spiritual partnership?
We are undoing millennia's of oppression and trauma through our deepest lovemaking but it's not just for the feminine, it's for the masculine too. Our source unified collective unconscious KNOWS our divinity and calls it out and upon our beloved.
In fact women demand their beloveds godly greatness, as usually she can see it long before he can. Only this often means he doesn't feel good enough or worthy enough for her. A part of her feels this too.
These feelings though are not necessarily our own but are to be observed as a dance with the beloved.
What can be done to remove this shaming? What can a woman do to remove this conditioning?
1. You must be your OWN primary lover. If you believe another will complete you then you will forever be searching.
2. You must do the inner work of healing the masculine energy within you. What does 'he' feel like, look like? What does his wisdom have to say which will support you?
3. Work with you perceived needs. Allow whatever shape they form to be explored, what do they have to teach you? Are they nudging you to your wholeness?
The way of woman is calling you home sister, will you answer?
We really are here dreamed awake through love to manifest in the playground of abundance, so what do YOU dream awake, love?
When today's #selfloveweek email came through with the simple question "What do you dream of making your reality?" I have been hesitant to answer it all day!
Through all the inner work I have done, the therapy and the plant medicine ceremonies the question keeps coming up, what do you choose?
It's been a baffling question, and that in itself sounds bizarre. It means I get to make decisions, it means I AM FREE to have anything I desire.
I've had to step into the KNOWING that all things are possible, not just wishing for it or believing in it but ingrained knowing.
I've literally just taken the first step forward! It feels odd actually but I bow down to all my experiences, my woundings, my conditioning- thank you for pushing me on the path of my sovereignty, my birth rite!
So I choose
💕 to show up exactly as I am, exactly where I am
💕 to always walk the path of innocence
💕 to declare now and always that we are shameless
💕 wealth and abundance in all things that I create and touch
💕 to honour my voice and sing in the songs of love and truth
💕 to always remember I gave everything I need and therefore can have fun in playing with my desires
This will be my new reality, what about you loves?
Grandmother Ayahuasca took my hand last week and we peeled off the layers of my skin and unfolded it like a map of the universe.
She showed me how when we incarnate, our body moulds itself to the conditioning of not only our environment and culture but also it moulds itself to the promise of the work that we would do on this plane.
I enquired more and saw how when we have pain in our bones and when we have trauma etched in our skin, it is not ours to keep and as we work on our bodies, we are in fact in great service to the oneness of humanity.
The extraordinariness of our temples gave me fresh eyes. Within us we have the power to mould our bodies under the eyes of love, for we are love.
Our bodies are our first and last connection to this Earth. Our bodies are loyal AF! Continuing to show up day after day, even if all you can do is crawl, even if you can not move, the consciousness of our bodies continually wants to serve us.
I'm 40 next year and this is the first time in my life I am genuinely curious, from a place that's for me, at what fitness could look like, at what bountiful health could become. I want to love and accept all of me from the top of my head to the tips of my toes.
My beloved has always reflected this message back to me but I was too stubborn to see, still wounded that after all traumas and hardships that I needed to rest. Now I see and it's very humbling because moving my body in a way that my body actually needs is a new concept and I admit I'm sore at being a beginner!
I don't always accept the stories of my body but I do love my body and it is my intention to fall more and more in love with it for the rest of my life. I love my body's womanliness, my narrow waist and big breasts. I love that I created life with this body. I love to make love in this body, I love its sensuality, I love my body's strength to carry on even when my mind has given up.
I love that my body is healthy enough to bleed every cycle and remind me that I AM WOMAN.