𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐛𝐞𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐲 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐬𝐪𝐮𝐢𝐫𝐦... 𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐨𝐝𝐢𝐞𝐝 𝐣𝐨𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐧... 𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐝𝐬 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐯𝐨𝐤𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮... 𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐬𝐰𝐚𝐲... 𝐑𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐠𝐨𝐝𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐤𝐞𝐧... 𝐒𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐢𝐭𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐨 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐝𝐞... 𝐒𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐛𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐲 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐦𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐛𝐞 𝐛𝐫𝐨𝐤𝐞𝐧... 𝐅𝐨𝐫 𝐬𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐬 𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐚𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐰𝐨𝐤𝐞𝐧...
𝑾𝒆 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝑮𝑼𝑺𝑯𝑰𝑵𝑮 𝒕𝒊𝒅𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝒄𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒈𝒆
In my lifetime I made an agreement to embody feminine Ş𝔢ˣ𝐔𝕒𝕝 shame, my higher self so sure that I would transform and break this patterning for my ancestral line. In doing so I made a promise to show up, in the limelight and share what it means to walk the path of woman. In all her holiness, in all her beauty and in all her sovereignty.
I have been abused, I have been violated, I have been shamed. I have been a whore, a bitch and a prostitute. I have been a liar and I have been a sinner. I have created life in my womb and I have destroyed it. I have given my power away and I have had it forced from me. I have both forgotten myself and tried to take away my breath, had hands upon my mouth and neck and my voice stolen from me. I have had dark shame, sorrow and grief grow into the physical mass of my womb and heart. I have opened my legs out of both fear and disgust and had my feminine portal torn open and sewn up again.
Do you see sister? Are you resonating? The way of woman is not a path trodden lightly. We are not here to carry on with the traumas of our great grandmothers and our sisters who have been burnt at the stake. We are here to be the tide of change. We are the GUSHING tide of change!
I will SHAMELESSLY take a stand for the innocence of womankind, her sensual pleasurable feminine expression of a juicy life! I have walked my path of fire to show you there is light, there is healing and there is ecstacy.
Since 2005 I have blended my psychotherapy training with womens womb wisdom which has travelled through the hearts and consciousness of plants and mother consciousness. I make no apology for being both a psychotherapist and a Mystic. This is the path of the priestess and great goddesses, whom we all are embodied. I couldn't care less about being labelled but I do care about my sisters reclaiming their sexual innocence 🙌🏻💓
If you feel touched by any of my posts and my words ring true for you, I have sessions both in person and online. Drop me a message if you feel the call of the shameless woman within 🙏🏻
The most frequent question I get asked by men on my emails is:
How can I be good enough for a woman?
Isnt it interesting that in these times of so called advanced and spiritual communities that real good men who want to connect to a partner by making love, is not enough if it isnt labelled tantric?
What Ive established in the last decade alone is that women want to be 'fucked open' to God by being ravished and profoundly penetrated by a worthy man, who has done the work on himself, transmuted his traumas, is deeply sensitive, generously giving, will listen emphatically, hold space for her AND be her pillar, her rock and support system.
What exactly is this expectation? Explored deeper the underlying theme is the same, and that is that men and women still carry false 'incomplete' templates. It's really THAT simple BUT there is also a complexity and an 'a-ha' moment to be considered.
What exactly is happening in the lovers union of a spiritual partnership?
We are undoing millennias of oppression and trauma through our deepest lovemaking but it's not just for the feminine, it's for the masculine too. Our source unified collective unconscious KNOWS our divinity and calls it out and upon our beloved.
In fact women demand their beloveds godly greatness, as usually she can see it long before he can. Only this often means he doesnt feel good enough or worthy enough for her. A part of her feels this too.
These feelings though are not necessarily our own but are to be observed as a dance with the beloved.
What can be done to remove this shaming? What can a woman do to remove this conditioning?
1. You must be your OWN primary lover. If you believe another will complete you then you will forever be searching.
2. You must do the inner work of healing the masculine energy within you. What does 'he' feel like, look like? What does his wisdom have to say which will support you?
3. Work with you perceived needs. Allow whatever shape they form to be explored, what do they have to teach you? Are they nudging you to your wholeness?
The way of woman is calling you home sister, will you answer?
★彡 DREAM AWAKE LOVE 彡★
We really are here dreamed awake through love to manifest in the playground of abundance, so what do YOU dream awake, love?
When today's #selfloveweek email came through with the simple question "What do you dream of making your reality?" I have been hesitant to answer it all day!
Through all the inner work I have done, the therapy and the plant medicine ceremonies the question keeps coming up, what do you choose?
It's been a baffling question, and that in itself sounds bizarre. It means I get to make decisions, it means I AM FREE to have anything I desire.
I've had to step into the KNOWING that all things are possible, not just wishing for it or believing in it but ingrained knowing.
I've literally just taken the first step forward! 👟👟👟 it feels odd actually but I bow down to all my experiences, my woundings, my conditioning- thank you for pushing me on the path of my sovereignty, my birth rite!
So I choose
💕 to show up exactly as I am, exactly where I am
💕 to always walk the path of innocence
💕 to declare now and always that we are shameless
💕 wealth and abundance in all things that I create and touch
💕 to honour my voice and sing in the songs of love and truth
💕 to always remember I gave everything I need and therefore can have fun in playing with my desires
This will be my new reality, what about you loves?
★彡 MY BODY MY MEDICINE 彡★
Grandmother Ayahuasca took my hand last week and we peeled off the layers of my skin and unfolded it like a map of the universe.
She showed me how when we incarnate, our body moulds itself to the conditioning of not only our environment and culture but also it moulds itself to the promise of the work that we would do on this plane.
I enquired more and saw how when we have pain in our bones and when we have trauma etched in our skin, it is not ours to keep and as we work on our bodies, we are in fact in great service to the oneness of humanity.
The extraordinariness of our temples gave me fresh eyes. Within us we have the power to mould our bodies under the eyes of love, for we are love.
Our bodies are our first and last connection to this Earth. Our bodies are loyal AF! Continuing to show up day after day, even if all you can do is crawl, even if you can not move, the consciousness of our bodies continually wants to serve us.
I'm 40 next year and this is the first time in my life I am genuinely curious, from a place that's for me, at what fitness could look like, at what bountiful health could become. I want to love and accept all of me from the top of my head to the tips of my toes.
My beloved Julien has always reflected this message back to me but I was too stubborn to see, still wounded that after all traumas and hardships that I needed to rest. Now I see and it's very humbling because moving my body in a way that my body actually needs is a new concept and I admit I'm sore at being a beginner!
I don't always accept the stories of my body but I do love my body and it is my intention to fall more and more in love with it for the rest of my life. I love my body's womanliness, my narrow waist and big breasts. I love that I created life with this body. I love to make love in this body, I love its sensuality,
I love my body's strength to carry on even when my mind has given up.
I love that my body is healthy enough to bleed every cycle and remind me that I AM WOMAN.